5 Questions to Ask In Your Next IEP Meeting

IEP meetings can feel overwhelming for families. There’s a lot of information, many professionals at the table, and important decisions being made about your child’s education.

One of the best ways to feel confident and engaged is to come prepared with a few key questions. Asking thoughtful questions helps you understand the team’s perspective and ensures your child’s needs are at the center of the conversation.


Five Dialogue-Creating Questions:

1. How do you see my child’s strengths showing up in the classroom?

Starting with strengths sets a positive tone and helps make sure your child is seen as more than just their challenges.

2. Can you walk me through the data behind my child’s present levels?

This helps you understand how goals are being set and what progress looks like. It also ensures decisions are based on clear evidence.

3. What strategies or supports have been most helpful so far?

This opens the door for teachers to share what’s working and helps you advocate for consistency across settings.

4. How will progress be monitored and shared with me?

Knowing when and how you’ll receive updates prevents surprises and keeps everyone accountable.

5. What can we do together to support my child at home and at school?

This frames you as a partner on the team. Collaboration between school and home creates a stronger foundation for your child’s success.


Asking questions isn’t about challenging the school team; it’s about making sure you have the full picture and can work together to help your child thrive. Remember: you are an important member of the IEP team, and your perspective matters.

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